5 Sure Ways to Know He's in Love With You

Monday, May 01, 2017 7 Comments A+ a-


The ultimate question on almost every woman's lips. As effusively ambitious as it sounds, it remains a valid one given that many men would go any length to give the impression of someone in love just to access the honey between a woman's laps.
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I have compiled five pointers that I believe would deepen further discussion on this puzzling question from numerous answers to the same poser on a friend's facebook wall.
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Before I highlight these points it is pertinent to note that there's a marked difference between  a man that loves you and a man that is in love with you. It is possible for a man to love you without being in love with you but quite impossible for a man to be in love with you without loving you.
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In any way, there are no hard and fast rules to any of these things by the way.
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1. A man that is in love with you would be wary of losing you. There's an extra caution to how he handles you because he wouldn't want to lose you. Let's just say you must have come to mean so much to him he sees you as an integral part of his present and future. Ah, you must be a value for a man to be in love with you as it is.
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2. If he constantly seeks your growth and development, he is in love with you. Whoever seeks your growth and development undoubtedly loves you but to constantly do that requires a lot more than loving someone. A man not bonded to you by blood that loves you with such tenacity is in love with you.
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3. A man in love with you can not keep quiet about the special woman in his life.  He'd would have probably talked about you with unmistakable glow in his eyes to people you haven't even met. You will pop up in his conversation with others more often than he can resist. When you meet his friends or family, you'd know...
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4. When a man is in love with you, he'd wait for you. Let me explain. A man in love with you is blind to your vices and inadequacies. As long as there's still a chance ( and he always convinces himself there is)  that you could be better, that you'd work upon yourself, that you'd put in efforts... He's willing to wait and persist with you. That's why they say Love is blind. It is isn't. It is merely an incurable optimist.
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5. Finally, a man that is in love with you would forgive you. Forgiveness is one of the basic quality of love. He might sulk or brood when offended, but he has a place in his heart for you that makes it impossible not to forgive you. If he can't forgive you, he has fallen out of love.
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In conclusion, ladies must understand that loving does not happen in a day. It is a need that requires nurturing to grow and mature. What we call love is often infatuation that has stood the test of time. Love takes time and patience.
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Credits: Hymar Idibie David Olumide GlowVille Tosin Ayo Olubukola Ozone
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This piece is by Ogbeni La

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Kezia
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May 1, 2017 at 1:33 PM delete

This is awesome...WOw

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flywaterz
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May 2, 2017 at 12:02 AM delete

Hmmm...so that is why this girl dey always do me like this.. she knows I'll always forgive her

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May 2, 2017 at 4:36 AM delete

No one is ever supposed to take you for granted. You need to know when there is subtle abuse. But if it is not calculated aggravation from her end, you will always forgive her if you are deeply in love. Remember that to be in love is different from to love. One is deeper and more reckless than the other.

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May 2, 2017 at 11:23 AM delete

This is so true and relevant.

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May 2, 2017 at 11:25 AM delete

This is so true and relevant.

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May 2, 2017 at 12:01 PM delete

Exactly true, Hadassah. Thank you for reading.

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