4 Surefire Tips to Finding Mr. Right

by - Wednesday, June 21, 2017

While many women truly enjoy the single life, others are ready to find their “MR. RIGHT” and begin a new chapter in the story of their lives. Whether you’re new to the game or you’ve been dating a bunch of ‘good for nothing’, this article is meant for you.  

In this article I would be highlighting and discussing five basic and crucial tips to finding the right guy noting that everyone is different but this tips can be applied by almost anyone and still achieve positive results.

1. Know What You Want: The most important part about finding Mr. right is that you must not sit around waiting for him to find you. You have to go out and find him. Even Cinderella got herself to the ball! And the first step to finding the right guy is “know what you want” from a man and the relationship if not, how would you know the right guy when he comes? Setting your priorities straight and having standards enable you to know the right guy when he comes your way noting that more often than not, the right guy may not meet up to all the standards that you have set for yourself but meeting most of it if not all is an important factor to also look out for. 

From his dress sense to the way he relates with others, you would have your preferences so why not include them in the list of how you want your man to look like and behave because why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t possess the characteristics you like and end up feeling embarrassed about him around your friends? So once you have your list ready you know what to look out for and possible places of finding him.

2.  Know Where To Look: All types of men cannot be found everywhere, different places with different types and class of men. So knowing what you (kind of man) are looking for would determine the place to go look for him, just like a Christian lady looking for a faithful Christian Brother cannot go looking for him in the club. 

After you’ve figured out the kind of guy you’re looking for, go to neighborhoods where such guys are concentrated to have your lunch or just hang out, this means you should be willing to talk to guys you don’t know

3.  Know How To Look: In knowing how to look, you can also ask your friends for their
opinions about the guys in your life, you never can tell….. Mr. Right might just have been a table away from you at the office and people get to see what you don’t! Remember that you’ve set your standards so use that as a guide to choosing, from looking at his priorities to the way he talks to and about you and everything else in between, these are signs to watch out for. Does he try to avoid calling you his girlfriend when introducing you? Has he been reluctant to introduce you to his parents despite the fact that you’ve been dating for a while? 

These are bad signs and you should also watch out for how he talks to you. Is he insulting and always hurting your feelings with his words? Even when you have flaws, Mr. right would help you making yourself better rather than rubbing your imperfections in your face and he would do this by being patient with you not instead of pressuring you.

4.  Be Mrs. Right: Get a life! The most important thing is to be Mrs. Right yourself. Finding the right man is not going to change you into a better person than you already are. If you are lazy and self-centered, finding a generous and hardworking man would not transform you, it would rather create an unhealthy  imbalance in the relationship noting that no one would want to have a lazy person as a life partner. 

So try to model yourself after women you admire. Work hard at changing your character defects (if you are not sure what they are, ask your mum), get a hobby, complete your education and learn to be happy with yourself first because no man, no matter how right is going to make you happy if you aren’t already happy from within.

Pic credit : @simplycyn

This blog post was written by Charlotte David. You can find her here

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